This game is for anyone who wants to build stronger friendships, reconnect with old friends, or make new ones feel like lifelong companions.
Whether you’re catching up, bonding over a night in, or deepening an existing relationship, these questions turn ordinary conversations into unforgettable moments.
Why you will love it
Real friendships go beyond surface-level small talk.
This game is designed to spark meaningful conversations, create inside jokes, and uncover stories you’ve never heard before.
Whether you’re strengthening an old bond or forming a new one, these questions make every interaction feel natural, effortless, and fun.
How to use
Simply open the book and start asking.
Each question is designed to bring out real stories, honest thoughts, and unexpected moments of connection.
You can take turns answering or let the conversation flow naturally.
Whether you’re with close friends or just getting to know someone, the game makes every interaction feel comfortable and engaging.
Where can you use it
Perfect for road trips, game nights, long dinners, or casual hangouts.
Whether you're sitting around a table, traveling together, or chatting over drinks, this game turns any gathering into an opportunity to bond and share meaningful conversations.
The science behind it
Friendships thrive on shared experiences, trust, and deeper understanding.
These questions are designed based on psychological principles that promote emotional closeness, storytelling, and curiosity-driven dialogue.
By asking the right questions, you naturally strengthen bonds, making every conversation feel more personal and connected.
Question Examples
Set One - Getting to Know You
"If we opened a food truck, what would we serve, and what role would I have?"
Set Two - Building Trust and Understanding
"If I could instantly understand one thing about you, what would you want it to be?"
Set Three - Reflecting on the Friendship
"What’s a time when we laughed the hardest together?"
Set Four - Scenario-Based Questions
"Imagine a friend was struggling with their identity or sense of purpose, and they asked for your perspective on how to find themselves again. How would you guide them?"
Download & delivery
The book comes as an elegant A5 softcover, printed on premium-quality paper designed for lasting use.
You'll also receive instant digital access via a Notion file and a downloadable PDF, so you can start using it immediately.
Once you purchase a book, you will be redirected to a download page. Additionally, you will receive an email with a link to the download page for later access.
Shipping for the physical versions takes from 6 to 21 business days depending on the amount of orders we are currently dealing with.
In case of a lost or damaged order, or inability to access your downloads you can reach us at support@yanholder.com.
Thousands of good reviews. We think people like it.
It was the perfect balance, and it worked for both close friends and people I didn’t know as well 💝
Eliana D.
September 12, 2024
This made our last gathering so much more interesting. Instead of just drinking and talking about random things, we actually had real conversations that made the night memorable.
David G.
May 5, 2024
My friends and I had drifted apart a little, so I got this book to use on a night in. It ended up starting 5 hours of conversation.
Isabella V.
November 30, 2023
I got this for a work retreat, thinking it might be useful for team bonding. It ended up making everyone feel way more comfortable around each other. Definitely better than those forced icebreaker games.
Miriam K.
August 29, 2024
It was eye-opening in the best way.
Felix G.
July 18, 2024
I was skeptical at first, but this game genuinely helped me feel more connected to the people in my life. I never realized how much we rely on small talk until we started playing this.
Bianca D.
February 20, 2024
I realized I spend so much time with my friends but don’t actually know certain things about them. These questions made it easy to ask without it feeling forced, and I feel like we’re all much closer now.
Samir J.
June 8, 2024
I used this with a group of people I had just met, and it made connecting so much easier. The questions got us talking about things that actually mattered. I would love an a4 version though so I can use it as decoration, because the cover design is very aesthetic.
Alex B.
January 18, 2025
I brought this on a road trip with my best friend, and we went through so many questions. It made the drive way more fun, and we even learned things about each other we hadn’t talked about before.
Jordan K.
April 3, 2023
I moved into a new apartment and barely knew my roommate, so I suggested we go through some of the questions. Now we’re good friends.
DeAndre O.
October 5, 2023
Brought this out during a game night, and it was a hit. The questions are fun but also make you think. We ended up learning so much about each other in ways we never expected.
Sasha H.
July 22, 2024
Some questions were abit boring but in general we actually had deep, meaningful conversations. It felt like no time had passed at all.
Jonathan P.
March 15, 2024
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Frequently Asked Questions
About the project.
Hey, my name is Yan and I am grateful to share my work with you.
I believe true transformation begins with the right questions. The right systems. The right tools.
Everything I create is designed to elevate your thinking, deepen your relationships, and refine the way you navigate the world. My books and journals aren’t just collections of words—they are frameworks. Meticulously designed, psychology-backed, and elegantly crafted to help you step into your full potential.
Whether through the art of conversation, the discipline of self-reflection, or the mastery of personal presence, each product is an invitation to think deeper, live bolder, and engage more fully. I believe in substance over excess, in design that inspires action, and in the quiet power of a well-placed question.
My work is for those who seek not just answers, but clarity, growth, and an edge in every interaction.
This is not self-improvement for the sake of it. It’s self-mastery.
Welcome to a collection built for those who demand more—from themselves, their conversations, and their lives.
Do you design everything yourself?
Yes, every aspect of the process — from the concept and design to content creation and distribution — is done by me. I’m passionate about maintaining full creative control to ensure each product aligns with my vision and purpose. I partner with certified suppliers across the globe to ensure high quality and reliability for every product.
How can I purchase your products?
You can purchase any product directly from the website. Simply visit the product pages to learn more and place your order. We use Stripe to process our payments, which makes your purchase 100% secure and encrypted.
How are the products made?
Each of our products is crafted with care, using high-quality materials, manufactured in trusted facilities around the globe. All books feature a premium design and are printed on pure white, high-quality paper.
What is the philosophy behind your brand?
At Yan Holder, we believe growth comes from doing — not just dreaming. Our products are built on the foundation of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, but we take it a step further. Each tool we create is designed to spark action: to help you build habits, deepen relationships, and experience life more fully.
We focus on three key areas that shape a meaningful life — relationships, routine, and lifestyle — and turn them into practical, engaging tools you can actually use. Whether it’s a question that starts a life-changing conversation or a journal that reshapes your daily habits, everything we make is crafted to help you evolve, one experience at a time.
How do I download my files?
Once you purchase a book, you will be redirected to a download page. Additionally, you will receive an email with a link to the download page for later access. If you have any trouble downloading your files you can let us know by writing an email to support@yanholder.com.
Can I get my money back?
Yes. If your expectations are not met, feel free to reach out within 30 days of ordering and we will assist you accordingly. Contact customer service on support@yanholder.com.
What is your return policy?
If your product is damaged we will gladly send you a replacement. If it doesn't arrive within 30 business days from ordering, we will gladly send a new one. If any problems still persist, we will issue a full refund. Please contact us on support@yanholder.com.
How long does shipping usually take?
We have fulfillment centers in North America, Europe and Australia. Our products ship within 6 to 21 business days. We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee and free replacements in case of damage or loss. Feel free to contact us on support@yanholder.com and we'll come back to you with details on your order's status. Most orders also come with tracking.
Is your packaging suitable for gifting?
Not yet. At this stage the packaging is very basic - just a thick cardboard wrap. Durability and worldwide access are our top priorities at the moment, but we will definitely get creative with the packaging once we have the capacity.
How can I contact customer support if I have questions?
For any queries or support, you can contact customer service on support@yanholder.com.
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