This game is for anyone who wants to build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Whether you're on a first date, in a long-term relationship, or trying to bring back emotional closeness, these questions create effortless, engaging conversations.
If you’ve ever struggled with awkward silences, shallow small talk, or feeling disconnected, this is for you.
Why you will love it
Great relationships aren’t built on generic conversations—they’re built on trust, curiosity, and emotional connection.
This game eliminates the guesswork, helping you skip surface-level chat and dive into the kind of conversations that strengthen attraction and understanding.
Thoughtfully designed, psychology-backed, and easy to use, it’s a tool you’ll keep coming back to.
How to use
Simply open the book and start asking.
Each question is carefully crafted to bring out genuine emotions, personal stories, and unexpected moments of closeness.
You can take turns choosing questions or let the conversation flow naturally.
Whether you want to make someone laugh, reflect, or share something personal, the questions guide you there effortlessly.
Where can you use it
Perfect for date nights, road trips, cozy evenings, or even video calls.
Whether you're sitting across from each other at a candlelit dinner or killing time between destinations, this game makes any setting an opportunity for deep and engaging conversation.
The science behind it
Every question in this game is designed using psychological principles that enhance emotional bonding.
Studies show that self-disclosure, curiosity-driven dialogue, and structured interactions increase intimacy and trust.
These questions help remove barriers, allowing conversations to flow naturally and deepen connection faster than ordinary interactions.
Question Examples
Set One - Getting to Know You
"What’s the most unexpected thing you think I carry in my bag or pocket?"
Set Two - Delving Deeper
"What’s something you’ve done that you’re really proud of but don’t often talk about?"
Set Three - The Intimate Questions
"What’s something you’ve struggled to forgive yourself for?"
Set Four - Scenario-Based Questions
"If you could only keep one memory for the rest of your life, which one would it be?"
Download & delivery
The book comes as an elegant A5 softcover, printed on premium-quality paper designed for lasting use.
You'll also receive instant digital access via a Notion file and a downloadable PDF, so you can start using it immediately.
Once you purchase a book, you will be redirected to a download page. Additionally, you will receive an email with a link to the download page for later access.
Shipping for the physical versions takes from 6 to 21 business days depending on the amount of orders we are currently dealing with.
In case of a lost or damaged order, or inability to access your downloads you can reach us at support@yanholder.com.
Thousands of good reviews. We think people like it.
I tend to overthink on dates, but this book made everything feel natural. Instead of worrying about what to say next, I just followed the flow of the questions. It honestly made me feel more confident in my conversations.
Lucia F.
January 17, 2025
I used this game on a casual dinner date, and it turned what could’ve been just another night into something special. The conversation flowed, we laughed, and I left feeling like I had truly connected with someone for the first time in a while.
Jorge D.
May 22, 2023
I always struggled with small talk, especially when dating, but this book made it so easy. Not all questions were spectacular, but enough of them actually lead to meaningful conversations. I’ve already recommended it to a bucnh of my friends.
Nia R.
December 3, 2024
I keep this in my bag for dates and social outings. Works every time.
Nicky P.
June 12, 2023
I thought I knew everything about my boyfriend, but this game proved me wrong. Some of these questions led to conversations we never would’ve had otherwise, and it brought us even closer. Definitely worth it for anyone in a relationship.
Priya O.
January 14, 2024
I always hated the awkwardness of first dates, but this game completely changed that. We started with a couple of light questions and before I knew it, we were laughing, sharing stories, and actually connecting. It felt effortless, and I can’t imagine going on another date without it.
Elijah S.
November 8, 2023
My wife and I tried this, and even after years together, we learned new things about each other. Then I let my single friend borrow it for his dates—he said it was a game-changer. That’s when I knew this was something special.
Malik H.
August 29, 2024
I’ll be honest— when i got the book i wasn't sure if this would be any good. But my husband and i tried it over dinner, and the conversation felt effortless.
Samantha W.
October 20, 2024
Took this on a road trip with my girlfriend, and we never ran out of things to talk about. It made the hours fly by, and we even kept going once we got to our destination. Highly recommend for long drives!
Darius M.
July 5, 2023
This made my last date unforgettable. Simple book but so effective.
Jasmine D.
April 9, 2024
I’ve already gifted this to two friends, and they both loved it. One used it on a date, and the other with her fiancé. It’s such a unique way to bring people closer, and I know I’ll be buying more as gifts.
Andre K.
September 1, 2024
I got this because I wanted to feel more connected in my dating life. The questions made it effortless to create chemistry, and I walked away from my date feeling like we actually knew each other. I love but I wish the packaging was more fancy.
Fatima H.
December 25, 2024
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Frequently Asked Questions
About the project.
Hey, my name is Yan and I am grateful to share my work with you.
I believe true transformation begins with the right questions. The right systems. The right tools.
Everything I create is designed to elevate your thinking, deepen your relationships, and refine the way you navigate the world. My books and journals aren’t just collections of words—they are frameworks. Meticulously designed, psychology-backed, and elegantly crafted to help you step into your full potential.
Whether through the art of conversation, the discipline of self-reflection, or the mastery of personal presence, each product is an invitation to think deeper, live bolder, and engage more fully. I believe in substance over excess, in design that inspires action, and in the quiet power of a well-placed question.
My work is for those who seek not just answers, but clarity, growth, and an edge in every interaction.
This is not self-improvement for the sake of it. It’s self-mastery.
Welcome to a collection built for those who demand more—from themselves, their conversations, and their lives.
Do you design everything yourself?
Yes, every aspect of the process — from the concept and design to content creation and distribution — is done by me. I’m passionate about maintaining full creative control to ensure each product aligns with my vision and purpose. I partner with certified suppliers across the globe to ensure high quality and reliability for every product.
How can I purchase your products?
You can purchase any product directly from the website. Simply visit the product pages to learn more and place your order. We use Stripe to process our payments, which makes your purchase 100% secure and encrypted.
How are the products made?
Each of our products is crafted with care, using high-quality materials, manufactured in trusted facilities around the globe. All books feature a premium design and are printed on pure white, high-quality paper.
What is the philosophy behind your brand?
At Yan Holder, we believe growth comes from doing — not just dreaming. Our products are built on the foundation of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, but we take it a step further. Each tool we create is designed to spark action: to help you build habits, deepen relationships, and experience life more fully.
We focus on three key areas that shape a meaningful life — relationships, routine, and lifestyle — and turn them into practical, engaging tools you can actually use. Whether it’s a question that starts a life-changing conversation or a journal that reshapes your daily habits, everything we make is crafted to help you evolve, one experience at a time.
How do I download my files?
Once you purchase a book, you will be redirected to a download page. Additionally, you will receive an email with a link to the download page for later access. If you have any trouble downloading your files you can let us know by writing an email to support@yanholder.com.
Can I get my money back?
Yes. If your expectations are not met, feel free to reach out within 30 days of ordering and we will assist you accordingly. Contact customer service on support@yanholder.com.
What is your return policy?
If your product is damaged we will gladly send you a replacement. If it doesn't arrive within 30 business days from ordering, we will gladly send a new one. If any problems still persist, we will issue a full refund. Please contact us on support@yanholder.com.
How long does shipping usually take?
We have fulfillment centers in North America, Europe and Australia. Our products ship within 6 to 21 business days. We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee and free replacements in case of damage or loss. Feel free to contact us on support@yanholder.com and we'll come back to you with details on your order's status. Most orders also come with tracking.
Is your packaging suitable for gifting?
Not yet. At this stage the packaging is very basic - just a thick cardboard wrap. Durability and worldwide access are our top priorities at the moment, but we will definitely get creative with the packaging once we have the capacity.
How can I contact customer support if I have questions?
For any queries or support, you can contact customer service on support@yanholder.com.
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