Trusted by thousands to ethically hack their way into more meaningful moments — with 200 proven date ideas designed to deepen connection and keep the spark alive.
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Who is this for
This book is for anyone who wants to make dating effortless and exciting.
Whether you’re going on a first date, looking to spark new energy in your relationship, or want to break free from boring, predictable outings, these 200 ideas ensure you never run out of creative ways to connect.
If you’ve ever struggled with repetitive date nights, lack of inspiration, or feeling disconnected, this is for you.
Why you will love it
Great relationships thrive on novelty, shared experiences, and meaningful moments.
This book removes the pressure of planning and gives you unique, research-backed date ideas that naturally spark attraction and bonding.
Designed to be fun, creative, and adaptable to any situation, it’s the perfect way to make every date special without the stress of coming up with ideas yourself.
How to use
Simply flip through the book and choose a date idea that fits your mood and situation.
Each idea is crafted to foster fun, curiosity, and emotional connection.
Whether you're looking for something lighthearted, adventurous, or deeply meaningful, you’ll find an idea that brings you closer.
Use it to surprise your partner, shake up your dating routine, or make spontaneous moments even better.
Where can you use it
Perfect for first dates, long-term relationships, road trips, cozy nights in, or spontaneous outings.
Whether you’re exploring a new city, staying in for a relaxed evening, or looking for a creative weekend activity, these ideas fit every scenario and relationship stage.
The science behind it
This book is built on psychological principles that enhance emotional bonding through shared experiences and novelty.
Studies show that engaging in new activities together increases dopamine levels, reinforcing attraction and connection.
Thoughtfully designed to remove the guesswork, these ideas make it easy to strengthen relationships while keeping things fun and fresh.
Idea Examples
Set One - First Dates
"Meet at a café or food market, buy small snacks or drinks for each other, and take turns being blindfolded while guessing the flavors."
Set Two - Dates at Home
"Try a 'chopped' cooking challenge where each person gets random ingredients and has to make a dish from them."
Set Three - Activity-based Dates
"Take a spontaneous road trip to a town or landmark neither of you has visited before and explore together."
Set Four - Game Dates
"Play a variation of tic-tac-toe where each square has a mini-challenge to complete before marking it."
Download & delivery
The book comes as an elegant A5 softcover, printed on premium-quality paper designed for lasting use.
You'll also receive instant digital access via a Notion file and a downloadable PDF, so you can start using it immediately.
Once you purchase a book, you will be redirected to a download page. Additionally, you will receive an email with a link to the download page for later access.
Shipping for the physical versions takes from 6 to 21 business days depending on the amount of orders we are currently dealing with.
In case of a lost or damaged order, or inability to access your downloads you can reach us at support@yanholder.com.
Thousands of good reviews. We think people like it.
We took this on a weekend trip and ended up doing things we never would have thought of on our own. It made our getaway 10x times better.
Daniel Z.
May 29, 2024
This book made me realize how many creative ways there are to connect. 💕
Sophia W.
October 10, 2024
I took this book on a date, and it instantly changed the vibe. We picked a spontaneous activity, and it made everything feel natural and exciting.
Jason A.
June 22, 2024
If you’re tired of planning the same old dates, just get this book. I’ve already recommended it to three of my friends.
Maya G.
February 1, 2025
I never thought I’d need a book for date ideas, but woооw…… this completely changed my approach to dating. My girlfriend and I have had some of the most fun and meaningful moments just by flipping through and picking a random page.
Mark L.
July 18, 2024
I used to stress about planning fun dates, but this book made everything effortless. We tried a random idea last weekend, and it turned into one of the best dates we’ve had in years.
Emily B.
March 4, 2025
I gave this to my husband as a gift, and we’ve been using it every weekend. It’s incredible how much more engaged and present we feel on our dates now.
Rachel L.
November 2, 2024
I usually run out of date ideas quickly, but this book solved that problem instantly, it’s packed with creativity and makes every date feel unique.
Noah B.
September 7, 2024
It’s not just a list of ideas—it actually helps you create meaningful memories.
Jasmine S.
August 14, 2024
I’m not the best at coming up with date ideas, but this book made it foolproof. My girlfriend loves that we always have something new to try.
Liam J.
December 12, 2024
This made date night so much more exciting. The ideas are thoughtful, fun, and perfect for any stage of a relationship.
Alicia H.
March 30, 2024
Some ideas are simple, some are more adventurous, but all of them bring you closer together.
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