This book is for anyone who wants to be more charismatic and socially confident.
Whether you’re dating, making new friends, or looking to stand out at work, these 200 hacks will give you the edge.
If you’ve ever struggled with awkward interactions, being forgettable, or feeling out of place in conversations, this is for you.
Why you will love it
Charisma isn’t about being loud, outgoing, or faking confidence—it’s about mastering psychology, presence, and influence.
This book eliminates the guesswork, giving you science-backed, easy-to-use techniques that make people naturally drawn to you.
Whether you want to be more charming on dates, effortlessly social at events, or respected in the workplace, these hacks will change the way you interact forever.
How to use
Simply open the book and start applying the hacks.
Each one is designed to work instantly, with practical, real-world scenarios that you can use on the spot.
Whether you’re at a party, on a date, or in a high-stakes meeting, these techniques will help you navigate conversations, build attraction, and leave lasting impressions effortlessly.
Where can you use it
Perfect for first dates, networking events, casual meetups, workplace conversations, or even group settings.
Whether you're talking to someone one-on-one or engaging with a crowd, this book gives you the tools to shine anywhere.
The science behind it
Every hack in this book is built on psychological principles that enhance influence, connection, and trust.
Studies show that body language, social mirroring, curiosity-driven dialogue, and structured storytelling can drastically improve how people perceive and respond to you.
These hacks are designed to retrain your social instincts, helping you naturally attract people without trying too hard.
Examples
Set One - For Guys in Dating
"When she asks about you, give an answer with a little mystery. Instead of saying, 'I work in marketing,' say, 'I convince people to buy things they don’t need—but in an ethical way.' Intrigue is magnetic."
Set Two - For Girls in Dating
"When he compliments you, instead of saying 'thank you,' hold eye contact, smile slightly, and say, 'I know.' This unexpected confidence makes the moment playful and memorable."
Set Three - With Friends
"If you want to be the person people love inviting, always bring something unexpected to a gathering—an obscure game, a weird snack, or a funny inside joke. Being 'the person who brings the fun' makes you unforgettable."
Set Four - At Work
"If a boss or client is being indecisive, don’t ask, 'What do you want to do?' Instead, say, 'I see two strong options here. Here’s what I’d recommend.' Confident suggestions make decisions easier."
Product details & delivery
You'll receive instant digital access via a Notion file and a downloadable PDF, so you can start using it immediately.
In case of any problems with accessing your files you can reach us at support@yanholder.com.
Thousands of good reviews. We think people like it.
I’m not naturally outgoing, so I thought charisma was something you had to be born with. This book proved me wrong. Some of these hacks work instantly, and I’ve already noticed a change in how people react to me.
Nathan
September 5, 2024
I’ve always been socially decent, but this book took it to another level.
Dante
June 1, 2024
Honestly, this should be required reading for anyone who struggles in social settings. I started using a few of these at work, and I’ve noticed a real difference in how people listen to me now.
Rebecca
October 22, 2024
Took this book on vacation and started using the hacks with strangers at my hotel. I met more interesting people in one week than I usually do in a year. It really works.
Ella
May 9, 2024
I tried one of these hacks at a party last weekend, and for the first time, I wasn’t the awkward one in the room. I wish I had found this sooner.
Sophie
August 15, 2024
I used to overthink my social interactions, but these hacks made it so much easier. I just followed a few simple techniques, and people started responding to me differently.
Alex
February 10, 2025
My confidence skyrocketed after using this. I tested some of the dating hacks, and I’m pretty sure they saved one of my first dates from flopping.
Jordan
March 19, 2024
I read this book in one sitting, but I keep coming back to it. Some of the ideas are so simple yet so effective. I’ve already started getting more attention and engagement in conversations.
Tomás
November 18, 2024
I tried one of the workplace hacks before a big meeting, and my boss actually commented on how well I presented myself. It’s wild how small changes can make such a huge impact.
Melissa
July 3, 2024
If you want an easy cheat code to make conversations effortless, this book is it. The social psychology tricks inside make a huge difference.
Xavier
April 28, 2024
I work in sales, and I’ve read tons of books on persuasion, but this one cuts straight to the point. No overexplanations, just techniques that actually work.
Lena
August 6, 2024
Even if you apply just a few of these, you’ll notice the difference.
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